so i… have a bit of an awkward question. it’s not actually all that awkward, i just tend to overexaggerate because that’s my kinda thing–an overexaggerating king- okay, I’m rambling. so, basically, background:
i’m asexual. very, very asexual. i wouldn’t know absolutely anything abt sexual attraction unless i woke up one day and it quite literally slapped me right in the face. with that being said, my amazing writer self decided to create a character who meets the love interest and is instantly very much sexually attracted to him.
are you seeing my dilemma yet?
anyway, i’m not asking for anything too invasive. i don’t want to make anyone uncomfortable, but i would like to accurately describe without seriously butchering this and seeming unexperienced and over the top. bc, as you probably already picked up, i have no idea what i’m writing here.
i think i just need ?? thoughts ?? like what’s the first thing you think when you see someone you’re attracted to. how constant are the feelings and do they come back if you see them over and over again?
i’d really appreciate if only 16+ answered this, and just to make responders more comfortable as well, I’m 16 (nearly 17) so if you don’t feel comfortable answering this bc of my age, i completely understand and respect that.
EDIT: People seem to be getting confused as to what I’m asking here. I don’t want romantic attraction or anything about love, I’m mainly questioning sexual attraction which is very different from romantic attraction.
My main question, though phrased different, is basically asking: What is your first thought when you see a very attractive stranger?