The Rainbow Bar

Chocolate. Double chocolate. As much chocolate as can be.

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ooh chocolate is good.

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Yesss

Hellu beautiful people

I go by: Motte
Age: 22
Gender identity: cis female
Pronouns: she/her
Orientation: queer
About me: Iā€™m just your friendly neighbourhood bookmoth trying to survive college and cliffhangers. I recently joined and just made my first post, if youā€™d like to check that out

Nice to meet you all and HAPPY PRIDE MONTH :sunflower:

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Room for one more? :fox_face:

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Always!

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I go by: Lex (rarely Zen)
Age: 16
Gender identity: Who tf knows :upside_down:
Pronouns: any/all
Orientation: Identifying as pansexual for now
About me: Resident siren, love to play and listen to music, I write a bunch, Iā€™m an Eagle Scout and I forgot to do this introduction sooner lol.

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Hehe, welcome to the party XD

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hugs

Tbh I donā€™t really care about it, either :woozy_face: Iā€™m fine masc-presenting but I have definitely ignored some gender dysphoria over the years.

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Hugs back

Lmao, the lockdown just awoken something in me, so every day I come to accept that Iā€™m male:) There are a few complications but itā€™s been an ok road.

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YESSS OML

Itā€™s weird to think of how long I went without realizing Iā€™m pan despite there being clear signs everywhere :woozy_face: Of course, thereā€™s that little bitch in the back of my mind telling me Iā€™m faking it, but if I were faking it then boys with black nail polish wouldnā€™t make my heart go :hot_face:. Iā€™ve also come to realize that I never really saw my own gender, either? I guess I was just never forced to pick a label or smth.

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Heh, my sibling and I once were talking about what signs we had back then that clearly showed that we werenā€™t straight, and the oldest I found was back in 2nd grade XD flashbacks to me staring at magazinesā€¦ specifically the female onesā€¦

:joy: yeah, there are sometimes these moments where I donā€™t know if I like genders other than male, because have I ever felt real attraction yet? I mean, do I even like people enough? But like, Iā€™m open to everyone so what does that mean? cue brain questioning itself for the millionth time

Bleh, thatā€™s what I hate about myself, I was taught that I was and always will be female >.> and that just conflicts with what I had in mind. Like yes, I present as female, but bitch, donā€™t you ever call me a girl because I look like one.

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I never really given much thought to my gender identity because I never considered it important.

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I was about to as ā€œwhy the foxā€ but thenā€¦Eddie urgh

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gender is just a social construct anyway :woman_shrugging:

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I feel like lockdown awoke a lot of things in a lot of people lol (me included)

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s a m e. In hindsight itā€™s likeā€¦how did I not notice sooner I might not be straight???

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I donā€™t see how something can be socially constructed and still matter to people. Something I never understood.

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Yoooo thatā€™s a long time ago haha. I found signs back in like fifth grade i think but donā€™ remember.

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Yep, I donā€™t know what Iā€™ll be if it werenā€™t for that one movement that let me think about my identity

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