That’s good. How is the planning coming along? It happens.
Good morning
Good morning
How r u?
I am okay. Just woke up. Still tired. How are you?
Very tired, maybe i try to sleep.
I didn’t get much sleep
Yeah. That might be a good idea.
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Age: 18
Gender identity: cis female
Pronouns: she/her
Orientation: bi (?)
About me: i’m pretty shy but a bit more outgoing when comfortable
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I go by: Rin
Age: older than you
Gender identity: cis fem
Pronouns: she/her
Orientation: I honestly don’t know. The only person I ever romantically loved and still very much love is a woman. Whether or not that makes me a lesbian is anyone’s guess.
About me: I’m a terrible person, but I’m working on that.
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Hello. Welcome.
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Hi. Welcome.
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Alright so I’m just gonna post that here and maybe open a discussion.
I decided today that I’m gonna stop using the term “goldstar lesbian” to refer to myself. Cause even though it’s just the truth and I never saw anything in that term except an easy way to say “I’m not even the least bit attracted to men so please don’t have that tedious talk with me thanks”, the fact that I found out today that there’s actually also “silver star lesbians” (aka lesbians who kissed men before) and “bronze star lesbians” (aka lesbians who had intercourse with men before)… let’s not even try to say it nicely: it’s disgusting. That I never even knew about these things until today actually makes me gag cause I’ve been using that term “goldstar lesbian” in such an ignorant way, not knowing that it was a way to put me (“gold”) above others of my kind (“silver” and “bronze”.) It makes me ask myself why that’s even a thing to begin with. Why do we distinguish and discriminate like that? Why do we still see bisexuals as less than gays? Why do we still see transgender people who don’t want to transition as less than those who do transition? Why do we still see polys as dirty and/or cheaters in disguise? I love this community. We’ve done and achieved great things together. I just hope one day we can also get to the point where we dismantle our own bullshit and stop poisoning ourselves with it.
There. Had to let that one out. 
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I wish that we can dismantle this superiority elevations. In a community that wants equality, having unequal standings in that community doesn’t help. It isn’t equal for that community, only for a handful of people. It doesn’t help inclusive values. It can hurt people and not help them feel safe and understood. I don’t know why there people are like this. This is good to let it out. You are beginning of change.
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Hello everyone. How are you?
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I did not know that that was even a term, huh. For the best to not use it. As an asexual in a relationship with someone who’s nonbinary, I feel the whole ‘some thinking they’re higher up than others’. Heck, some folks don’t consider opposite sex LGBT+ couples as LGBT+ couples even when, say, both of them are bi or something. It doesn’t make sense to me. Being in an opposite sex relationship doesn’t make someone less bi. Then you have asexual couples just not being represented at all hardly
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hey y’all! i’m @THECYBERMONSTER and i’m part of the lgbt community! i don’t have an exact label for my sexuality, so if i’m the q lmao
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Hi, I am Brianna. How are you?
That’s okay. You don’t have to have a label.
Hi hi
This place is a dessert.
I go by: Nikko
Age: 21
Gender identity: Male
Pronouns: He/Him
Orientation: I do not know what it’s called. Uh how do I explain this, I’m generally Cupiosexual but I don’t get attracted by genders but by personality and beauty of any gender. Also, attraction don’t mean sex to me, just mere appreciation.
About me: I’m a weird person who encounter weird things online and in real life. You can say I’m a weird magnet. So, far I can only confirm that I only had 3 crushes, all of which were females, but I am so amazed and mesmerized by the beauty of people that I don’t even care about their gender.
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hello! nice to meet you :))
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