Wow. Then that’s my cue to never go for therapy.
MS Excel is my therapist.
At this point I’m not picky, but if you get along well with your girlfriend, then I should get along well with someone similar.
INFP is still my first choice, though. I just like someone who’d cry over Russian poetry or find bright lights irritating so I can be there to shield his eyes.
The funniest part is that therapy doesn’t work for me
Most people go to therapy to cry and tel stories. I want to analyze everything that went wrong (kind of like a corporate post-mortem) so that I can learn from it and it never happens again.
I’m 100% extroverted, she’s 100% introverted. My social battery lasts about 6h of constant yapping before I need a bunch of alone time. Hers lasts an hour at most.
There’s also the cultural differences (she’s German, I’m v Russian) and generally the level/type of care we need carries insanely.
Ah, classic INTJ thing. I don’t think I’d cry and tell stories either. I already have my trauma stories stored in notepad files and saved on my desktop. I can share them with anyone who wants, most commonly ChatGPT.
I can also analyse myself since I rarely feel emotions.
Ah.
That part is very understandable, my social battery also lasts one hour, and I recharge by standing still and not blinking.
Def early 2000s tsuyome gyaru, and then maybe the more recent Dark Academia from the late 2010s into the pandemic? Somewhere around there. I’m honestly in streetwear most of the time because it is comfortable and considered more acceptable for daily wear, but it’s an 80s/90s thing soo