Hehe yes, I suppose thatβll work. xD
Yep, thatβs Noxis.
So cute!
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A bit of a personal question, so you donβt have to answer if you donβt want to! Sorry for prying, but Iβve just had a related conversation with a friend of mine and was wondering. Anyways, how do you deal with your emotions? And do you deal with them before or after something happens?
Let them out
Rare answer, or at least, in my experience! How do you let them out? Do you vent, or maybe talk it out with someone? Iβm very curious!
I just express it, and calm down later.
Ah okay, thanks for sharing!
Usually I hold out and then go cry in the shower or something ahah
Now, that one Iβve heard xD It isnβt necessarily healthy though, but some things just canβt be spoken out loud so
Yeah xD
Idk if this makes sense but here it is~
Uhβ¦ I just donβtβ¦? I donβt display a lot emotion unless Iβm forced to or I have to seem more βaliveβ. But if you annoy me, you can be sure youβll have a few broken bones later:D (Iβm kidding)
Strong emotions like anger and sadness canβt be stopped (mostly cause I need to release it somehow) so I either act sulky and annoy people when Iβm irritated/mad or when Iβm sad, I just wanna be left alone until I feel better again.
Happy is a weird concept for me because I donβt get that a lot. (yeah sure, I can feel happy watching cute animal vines or something but it quickly disappears) I just fake happiness so it doesnβt make the atmosphere seem too sad you know?
:)
After, (I think???) I canβt completely subside them and I have to wait until they go away by either acting out on that emotion or staying quiet and bottling it up
It does make sense, and I have a friend who does the exact same thing. I donβt really like this way, no offense meant, since the baseline is faking yourself to make others happy in a sense, but each to their own! And most people I know deal with their emotions after as well, though some have managed to deal with them beforehand, so thereβs that! I think the worst Iβve seen was the bottling up, because sooner or later it explodes right in your face and itβs pretty ugly.
yep, this happened a few times but I usually do it at night so Iβm not bothering anyone~
Hmm, not exactly sure. It usually feels like theyβre very deeply rooted in my person and it can be hard to tell why I feel a certain way sometimes. But I guess I do tend to keep them to myself. I donβt compress them or forbid myself to feel them (itβs rather the opposite), but when I do feel them itβs not terribly obvious. I feel them very internally, if you know what I mean. It can be a storm on the inside but on the outside itβs less noticeable (unless I deliberately choose to). When Iβm not around people, I let myself cry it out or something. Although at times, itβs hard to express them physically, so I just journal or rant about it with writing. And yeah, I deal with them after something happensβ¦ so I have enough time to process them and let it out if I need to, when Iβm alone.
I understand and I guess itβs all just a matter of when and where. I express my emotions through writing as well, either that or I just imagine it growing wings and flying away xD
I like that.
Thanks!
I kinda do the same thing, though when Iβm happy I just kinda try to suppress it so I donβt start jumping up and downβ¦
xD A friend of mine does the exact opposite when sheβs happy the whole world ends up knowing she is